Homeschool Facts

This article has tips for nipping toddler tantrums in the bud before they start. Prevention is definitely better than cure!

Learn The Reasons Behind Outbursts

When a young child wants to do something and cannot, a tantrum is the result. This might be due to lack of ability (not being able to chase a cat for example) or not being allowed (wanting to pull the cat’s tail but being restrained).

Both types of outburst are a natural part of toddler development. Remember this, learn to expect them, and you will manage potential tantrums better.

Plan Ahead

Ask yourself which situations/triggers your child really cannot cope with. Is it possible to to avoid these altogether for the time being? How about: grocery trips, going out for a meal or chocolate and candy (these cause some youngsters to behave rashly).

For now, Internet shopping, home cooking and sugar-free snacks (or whatever replacements you choose) should the order of the day. It won’t be forever - don’t forget that children of this age are developing quite quickly and may soon have no problem with these problem behavior triggers.

Be Wary Of Overly Complex Activities

Many hassles can be avoided if you keep back any toys etc that you know will be too challenging for your toddler. Support her with new skills such as putting on pyjamas as she will need constant practice. A little forethought goes a long way here.

Choose Your Battles

Be careful that you don’t contribute to your toddler’s screaming fits. You suddenly realise you need to go out, just as her favorite show is starting. Recognise that she has a right to finish what she started - some sort of special compensation (AKA bribery) is better than losing your temper and causing an outburst at such times.

Second Best Is Good Enough

It’s tough for young children to understand that they can’t always get what they want. Compensating them with some other activity or item encourages the ability to compromise - but make sure the replacement is not wildly extravagant.

For example, a breadstick is a good substitute for the hungry child who has to wait another 20 minutes for their dinner.

The promise of a game or story makes up for having to leave an enjoyable play date.

Preventing temper tantrums is not always easy or possible, but with a little forward planning and tried-and-tested behavior strategies, you can make them shorter and less frequent.

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